Archive - In Tending

"You don't need to know how to play to say something"

The team at Outer Frequencies tells us how they planted their perfectly-imperfect punk scene in the sand

Jun 19 •

Ryan Rose Weaver (she/hers)

"Perfect" is not how great things get started

On how I learned to stop giving a f#$@ -- and started In Tending

Jun 17 •

Ryan Rose Weaver (she/hers)

Emerging from our avoidance holes, with therapist and writer Jeremy Mohler

"Meditation can make a huge difference. But men need to also be in groups together."

Jun 12 •

Ryan Rose Weaver (she/hers)

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Who are you in the rapids?

This week's Community Tuesday chat thread

Jun 10 •

Ryan Rose Weaver (she/hers)

How to use creativity to heal from burnout, with Kate Lynch

And how vital this concept is for tired caregivers

Jun 5 •

Ryan Rose Weaver (she/hers)

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Community Tuesdays: Mutual Aid

What's one thing that's giving you hope -- and how can we help?

Jun 3 •

Ryan Rose Weaver (she/hers)

Further Reading: Resources on fresh grief

I'm so sorry that you need these. May they help you to feel less alone.

Jun 2 •

Ryan Rose Weaver (she/hers)

May 2025

How to survive a stressful IEP meeting

Reflections and rituals for before, during and after we advocate for our kids

May 29 •

Ryan Rose Weaver (she/hers)

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Community Tuesdays: What are your intentions for this coming season?

PLUS: A printable intention-setting exercise for paid subscribers

May 27 •

Ryan Rose Weaver (she/hers)

Balancing kid needs with our own in the K-12 years, with Meredith Rodriguez

PLUS: Catch me live with Kate Lynch at 1pm EST to talk sped-momming specifically

May 22 •

Ryan Rose Weaver (she/hers)

Community Tuesdays: The F@#$s We're No Longer Giving

Because bounce-back culture is everywhere, and it is B.S.

May 20 •

Ryan Rose Weaver (she/hers)

What new parents need from community, with Meredith Rodriguez

As a parent, teacher and group facilitator, Meredith reminds us that we learn best from one another. PLUS: An invitation to continue the conversation…

May 15 •

Ryan Rose Weaver (she/hers)

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